First day of school

It’s my aunt’s first day of school. She is the youngest of five children and all of her siblings have already had this teacher, including my father.

My aunt sits up straight in her chair while the teacher adjusts her horn-rimmed glasses and clears her throat. She holds a yellowed paper with a list of students’ names typed on it.

The teacher reads each name clearly and loudly, until she gets to my aunt’s name. She stops reading abruptly. A range of emotions passes over her face: surprise, horror, suspicion.

“Are you related to Claude Grenier?” the teacher asks. She says my father’s name like she is pronouncing the name of the Antichrist. She glares at my aunt with anger and dread.

“It happened every year,” my aunt tells me a few decades later.

First sighting

We always get fall clothes when it’s time to go back to school, and then it’s still too hot to wear them. What do we expect? One day it’s August, the next day it’s September. Why do we think we’ll need so many sweaters?

This is the case in 2001, when I’m waiting for my very first university class to start. I sit on the floor in the hallway, uncomfortable in a very cute green sweater.

There is a guy standing across from me who is also waiting. He kind of looks like Vincent Van Gogh, but with a bigger beard.

The red beard is only the first thing I notice. He is wearing pyjama pants, and a comfy old pair of slippers. He leans against a wall looking unconcerned.

I have to admire his demeanour. Here he is, comfortable as can be, because who cares? I look at him while I sweat in my uncomfortable fall outfit.

I don’t know yet that I’m going to marry this guy one day. It’s months before I even speak to him.